We went to the koi shop the other day to visit our friends who own it, and Trey and Sara picked me some flowers.  The difference in their bouquets pretty much sums up the difference in their personalities.  Trey's bouquet is very carefully arranged and none of the flowers have any missing parts.  Sara just has a bunch of stems.  Notice the look she is giving Trey's flowers, "Why do his look different than mine?".